“ I can’t deny that our path has been complicated, but in the end, love makes everything simple.
— Blair Waldorf (aka Leighton Meester from Gossip Girl)
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Followthatway: Letter 5, to my dreams.
I’m sick and tired of people saying things like “oh just believe in yourself, you will achieve” or “dream big” or things like that because chances are, you most probably won’t achieve in anything because all those are merely thoughts.
To my dreams, and to all those dreams out there, start doing…
“ Get over him. He’s not even worth it. He is not worth your time or your tears. Yeah you loved him, I know that. And I know you just can’t see yourself with anyone other than him, I get that. I’ve been there. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where he is and who he is with. Do you honestly think he is thinking about you? No. Sure it hurts, the fact that he is out there falling in and out of love with other girls. Yeah you’re going to see him with one of his new girlfriends. Prepare yourself, because straight up; it’s gonna hurt. He will hold her a little closer and squeeze her hand a little tighter just because he knows you’re watching. He knows it’s killing you; and that’s why he will do it. Don’t let him get to you because that, well that’s exactly what he wants. Don’t give him what he wants. He doesn’t even deserve it. So what if he doesn’t talk to you? Do you honestly wanna be friends with an asshole like him anyway? Thing is, I know you still do. But give it time. Because all he would do is talk about his new girlfriend and just try and make you jealous, and really. Do you want to hear that? No. So screw him and his girlfriend. He will be sorry, trust me. When he finally sees you with some other guy who’s not him. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend holding you close, he will realize how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend is because he has you; the girl of his dreams. He will realize the huge mistake he made when he let you go, when he decided to choose her over you, when he decided he just did not love you the same. Trust me, he will be sorry. So don’t go on spending your nights waiting for that one phone call you know you’ll never get. Or that IM you know he will never send you simply because he likes to ignore you. He likes to pretend he doesn’t see you online, and he does it out of spite just because he knows it’s killing you. When he walks past you in the hallways, he is gonna look past you, but you need to know he only does that because he knows somewhere inside you, it will hurt. I’m not gonna lie to you. It will hurt. It will hurt a lot. But it will hurt even more when you see her name and how much he loves her in his profile. It’s all going to hurt. Knowing you’re not the girl that’s making him smile. Knowing you’re not the first person he thinks of when he wakes up and the last before he goes to sleep. Knowing you’re not the face on his wallpaper. Knowing you won’t be spending every single moment possible with him. Knowing there’s not going to be anymore late night phone calls arguing about who loves who the most. And you know what? Today, tomorrow, next week, or maybe months from now; your phone will go off with a text message, you will instantly grab your phone hoping it’s him saying he wants to give your relationship another shot. But trust me; he’s got too much pride. Even if he wanted to get back together with you, he wouldn’t tell you. You’re soon going to realize he doesn’t care about you anymore and he won’t be the first person you think of calling when you’re upset. He won’t be the one to put that smile back on your face. And yeah it’s going to hurt; its going to hurt a lot. But you know what you’re going to do? You’re going to hold your head up. You’re going to show him you’re better off without him and you don’t need him in your life. You’re going to prove to him that he made the biggest mistake of his life by letting you go and that you never really needed him anyway.
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Do you know Michelle Phan?
A few years ago I used to read Michelle’s blog on xanga. She was a cute girl so I followed her like a loyal fan. She was this sweet, pretty girl who seemed like she really wanted to help people. In short, she was someone to look up to in my teenage years….
I am really sad about this :[ She was my idol! I told like ALL my friends about her YouTube Channel! Now I don’t know what to think.
I actually discovered this page while trying to find reviews on her IQQU products. I actually wanted to buy a few of her products. But to my SURPRISE!.. There were so many sites like this out there that give REAL reviews. Now.. I know I said POSITIVE energy on this blog.. but the one thing I hate so much is when people lie.. It really sucks especially when someone you look up to would do this. I feel like crap telling everyone about her.
I read alot of stuff, and being a Science student.. I was extremely analytical and looked for loopholes and proof. I mean some of the stuff they say on there is pretty exagerated, but some things you can CLEARLY see are true.. like clearly!
One thing I actually still wonder about is if she ever even went to Vietnam? I was actually the one (again) telling all my friends that Michelle was going to Vietnam. And I just returned from a Vietnam trip (for a volunteer + Medical experience program) a couple months prior to reading her tweet on that, so I was super excited that she was going back to help a cause too.
Anyway.. to my disappointment, her FB group (which I use to follow) continuously put up pictures and videos of Thailand (you know which is awesome, she deserves a vacation), but the point is she didn’t stick to her word, which was helping out her people in Vietnam? She said she would. I think this just hit me hard because, Vietnam is something I am truly passionate about. When I have the resources and time to go back, I could gladly go back, seriously! But boasting about helping, you know, that’s just wrong. And this is MY reason why I unfollowed on twitter, and unsubscribed.
I didn’t actually listen to any of the stuff on Michelle Phail (although the points are pretty valid), but this is my personal reason why. This is something I would have been proud of her for doing. Being such a role model to girls, you expect she’d know her responsiblility, and not just go around talking with no action -_-“
Sigh* I am disappointed, truly. And STUNNED, that so many hater sites actually exist out there. At first I thought people were stupid and had no lives, but now I am starting to see it, and starting to beleive that there is probably a side of her I do not know at all!
But I am definitely not liking it O.o I hope she does something to recover her image, or she IS slowly going to lose her fans.
I thought I knew her. I mean we see so many videos of her. I thought she was very geunine, and I especially liked that she was Vietnamese :] But not anymore. She’s giving Vietnamese people a bad name. This one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. Negative stereotypes about Vietnamese people, and just asian people in general. This really cheeses me!
Okay, back to studying y’all! I hope I don’t wilt at the end of these 3 exams. WHYYY does it have to be 3 in a row. Makes me not want to study even more LOL :’( Oh well, things could be worse. So I shall just STUDY STUDY STUDY!
Toodles :]
— Sorry if here are typos, I am not going to take a second look at this right now. Need to study!
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Don’t ever be an option again. Even if it means loneliness
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